Comments on: Social Phobia. Losing friends

By: TheMental29

TheMental29 — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 18:37:34 +0000

I have a social …
I have a social problem where I fear situations that may involve scrutiny or judgment by others. I I was looking it up and found something that matched the description and it is called social phobia. Like a fear of being rejected by others so I only discovered my problem around two this morning but I just want to say its nice hearing you story I mite have had this for a while i have always had trouble makin new friends

By: cards412s

cards412s — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 18:37:34 +0000

i am the same. What …
i am the same. What I try 2 do is just keep telling myself that i am just as good as everyone else. it kinda works for me sometimes lol! My parents think I am overly sensitive and i do get worked up over other peoples opinions. When u see ur friends, just be sure 2 sure u r happy 2 see them… that is really enough! but more like talking 2 them is like extra credit

By: beautifulpaperflower

beautifulpaperflower — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 18:37:33 +0000

aw I think you …
aw I think you should tell them how you honestly feel, if there your real friend they;ll stick by you

By: eternallyempty

eternallyempty — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 18:37:33 +0000

realizing your …
realizing your friends arent exactly friendly can definitely bring depression. I understand how you respect your friends yet you notice the personality differences. but as for the trust, well real friends will understand your situation (but testing trust can be risky)

As for myself, Ive learned that you shouldnt invest too much into many friends, keep it to a few. If you let to many people into your heart you may get hurt. The only person you can truly trust and respect is yourself

By: poeticsunshine87

poeticsunshine87 — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 18:37:32 +0000

ok first of all i …
ok first of all i feel so hopeful that i am not alone and not crazy as i thought….i wish we could all form a group and help each other..maybe we would all be comfy around each other knowing we suffer from tha same symptoms..i hope everything gets better…if u learn somethin about our condition teach me plz thanks much love

By: shygirl4eva1

shygirl4eva1 — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 18:37:32 +0000

Im the same. I mean …
Im the same. I mean i love my friends but i usually distance myself away from them…. I just cant handle being around so many people. happy new year anyway. im sure things will get better we just have to have faith x

By: sh05hp

sh05hp — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 18:37:31 +0000

thank you for your …
thank you for your nice comments

By: sh05hp

sh05hp — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 18:37:31 +0000

Thanks so much for …
Thanks so much for your support

By: emmaaargh

emmaaargh — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 18:37:31 +0000

i can realate to …
i can realate to everything you are saying, this video makes me so emotional, becuase i feel exactly the same way, when i was younger, or even now i feel like i am wierd, but knowing there are other people like me makes me feel better. i also have pushed many friends away because i felt them drifting away

By: LaBellaa1984

LaBellaa1984 — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 18:37:30 +0000

I feel like I lost …
I feel like I lost old longtime friends recently, because of my bf they were drifting a way from me too or I was…? You should see people who are of your interests, be okay with not having the needs to see your friend everyday or week they should understand. or just tell them if they laugh they are no good friends and one day you will find your way and you will feel so much better!