How can we be sensitive towards people with anxiety disorder?
Friday, April 2nd, 2010Anxiety Disorder:
How can the rest of us be sensitive to those who have it?
I think being understanding is the key, but also motivating/supportive. Encourage an anxious person to take gradual steps to overcoming the things that they’re anxious about. Offering to be with them is a great help and can break down the fear of a situation, if someone you trust and get along with does it with you a few times. I think people shouldn’t just agree with the person with anxiety’s negative thoughts to try and protect them or through fear of being rude. Deep down the person probably knows that their fears are irrational, so if you agree with them when you really don’t they’re likely to feel patronised and not trust you. Instead people without anxiety should share their positive coping skills, to enable the person with anxiety to see how emotionally healthy people function and take tips from them.
If the anxiety is around social situations…I try to make myself go to social events that appeal to me but I find it hard when people attempt to try to make me talk in front of big groups. So I’d say that in group situations its better to talk to an anxious person 1-1 first. Once they’re relaxed around one person they’re likely to be relaxed around the rest of the group too and feel more confident. If people push too hard too soon it makes me personally freeze and close up most of the time.

People have a tendancy to dismiss social anxious/shy people as being dull and assume they’re not outgoing because they have nothing to say. I think people can be senstive by giving anxious people time to come out of their shell. By doing so you’ll get to know them properly and also increase their confidence around social interaction as they may have negative thoughts that people won’t like them and this will be proved wrong.
I am an ex sufferer of social anxiety disorder and my friend Janey http://www.youtube.com/janeyfromkorea has kindly arranged this Q and A session for us.
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